Slide your fingers around it, feel how warm and soft it is. Lick the sweet melty frosting off your fingers as you gently pull it apart…
I love to bake. It’s always been something I’m good at doing. I’m not talking about cooking, just baking. Yes there really is a difference! I could burn water if left to my own devices. I don’t match up savory flavors well and quite frankly, I just don’t like to cook. I’m pretty spoiled that the men in my life love to cook and do it pretty well.
I started baking in high school but I didn’t really get into it until about 5 years ago. When things are out of control, and my body feels like crap, baking is something that re-centers me- it’s my meditation. I’ve heard it said to cook or bake with love and your food will taste amazing, I think it’s true. Whenever I try a new recipe my goal is to soak in the aromas of the spices. I immerse myself in the ingredients and watching them come together brings me a sense of peace.
I love to share my baked goods as well. Breads, cakes and cookies are my go-to treats and are easy to transport. Seeing the joy spread across the person’s face is so heart-warming and feeds into my submissive side.
Baking isn’t the first thing you think of when you read about submission. It falls in quite well though, domestic service is usually on the list when you read about qualities of a submissive. The Doms I’ve been priveledged to serve have all enjoyed my delicacies. As odd as it sounds baking is my indulgence and the things I bake are just as indulgent.
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I can attest to the absolute veracity of this post. Beloved bakes the *best* confections.
Ask her about her pumpkin cookies! ?
I have always liked baking the most. When I started a chef’s apprenticeship I planned to transfer over to the pastry kitchen. Even though I could never live off all the baked goods, I have always loved the creation of things like scones.
I love scones! I have been lucky enough to travel a bit and the best scone I’ve ever had was in Germany. I strive to make them the same.
The oven is important. A lot of new fashionable kitchens have expensive and crap ovens for scones
You are quite right! I find scones found in chain stores are too sweet as well. Also the ratio of baking powder to salt is important.
Yep. Out of oven is best. Supermarket bakeries would prefer to cook meth if they could. Always a test of a suburb is it’s supermarket bakery and if they have bread available at an hour people have gone to the village bakery for thousands of years. If not… you know there is a lot of drugs in town
This is all stuff we are supposed to be taught by grandmothers. Family recipes must be written down and elders must be listened to ???☺️
Some of the best recipes I own are my families. ❤️
Keep them and pass them on… family treasures and family spirit
Absolutely! My son loves to bake with me.
Best thing I have heard today.
My grandmother was my first love and friend in life. She taught me to cook from when I was a small boy. When I got to year 7 in an elitist boys school my best mate was another boy who could also cook. All the other boys had housekeepers or mothers who had never worked. My mate was gay but big and pretty mad. I was just mad though we both dropped out early. We didn’t identify with the place because we had learned to look after ourselves. He died in 98.
Cooking is spiritual and brings people together.
I’m happy to share the joy. I am sorry for the loss of your friend though.
He was a good friend and a great person. Great cook too. Thanks for the chat.
I guess when Black Sabbath enters life you know school is about to be given the ass for good.
My pleasure! You may have a good point haha!
The other thing I like about it is the early morning hours and the quietness
What about the pumpkin cookies? As much as I love your post, I now am getting cravings. Good news is, I’m allowed to! Bad news, I don’t think my German bakery is open anymore. I’ve been wondering why I’m having not much luck with D/s relationships. Perhaps it’s because I don’t cook.?
Pet was being silly. I do make a really good pumpkin chocolate chip cookie that isn’t overwhelmingly pumpkin.
The cravings are good.. for the most part ?
I’m sorry to hear about your bakery. I can’t wait to go back again just to sit in a cafe and have some amazing coffee!
I doubt your cooking abilities had a detrimental affect on your relationships. I just happened to browse through some of the lists and domestic service is on there in some form be it cooking, cleaning, or any other domestic task. That doesn’t mean in any way that a submissive has to do any of those things. Pet is service oriented, it feeds his submissive mental space to do those things for me.
I dont bake but my man does now and then and I love eating the fruits of his ventures – apparently there is some kind of recipe/cooking thing ran for sex bloggers. Feve left a message on my Nov Soss about it. I am going to check it out – it is on the 10th Dec. Pop over to my post and u can find the link in the comments section if u fancy checking it out too x
Awesome! I will do that. Quinn @onqueerstreet is running a BDSM Bake-off challenge too until the end of December. Pet has written a story for it which is in edit mode ?
I enjoy baked goods and baking but I don’t do it often anymore, not since I lost weight anyway..
See the secret is I make them, have one or one piece, then gift the rest out lol. No weight gain over the holidays ?
I don’t know enough people to give them out AND more importantly MrH and S2 would not be happy if I gave them away! LOL ???
Hehehe.. fair point! S and pet are rather fond of them and get a little miffed when I give them away.
I wasn’t thinking about baking when I started reading your words, and cake frosting and pulling apart wasn’t what I had in mind. But then I realized you were talking about culinary arts and I do love baked goods too. Now ,I am picturing you bustling about in your kitchen, wearing nothing but an apron, as the aroma of sweet delights fills the room.
I have been known to bake with only an apron and heels on ? it’s quite fun!