Love of a Lifetime

Write a letter to your first love…or to your younger self at that time. What did you take away? What do you remember? Are your memories happy, sad…bittersweet? How did you grow? Was your first love even a person? Dear S, I wish I could remember all of the little things that made me decide […]

To read or not to read

Reading can spur a lot of erotic emotions, thoughts, and actions. Write about the books, magazines, or other reading materials that have shaped your sexuality. From my teenage years on I read a lot of romance novels. I don’t recall many of the titles but Harlequin novels were my favorite. They were the first novels […]

The Sweet Spot

Do you now find, or have you ever found, anything distressing or uncomfortable about your sexual thoughts, fantasies, desires, or actions? Have you had any experiences that have caused you embarrassment? I sat there last night fighting with myself on this post. I was on the phone with pet trying to figure out what to […]

Sassy yet satisfying

How would you describe your sexual style? Side note- synopsis of a category may refer to male-female relationships. This does not mean any other relationship is negated or dismissed. I decided to look at this week’s Erotic Journal Challenge from a couples aspect. We all still have our individual style, but if our styles conflict […]

Hurt me like you mean it

Trigger Warning- this post involves rape, BDSM, and my journey into masochism. This post was hard to write. I’ve been working on it over a few days as it has affected my mood and sleep. It needs to be said though. No one should ever feel that rape is ok or is their fault.  Have you ever been hurt sexually (physically, emotionally, mentally)? How do you […]

Dare to explore

What would you like to explore in your sexuality over the next 30 days? Within the next year? I’ve struggled with this prompt for some reason. I’m always open to try new things, but nothing seemed to jump out at me. Something not necessarily kink related has peaked my interest. I’ve never been much into […]

“I’ll have what she’s having”…

This week’s Erotic Journal Challenge is about discovering my own sexuality. When I became aware of my sexuality, when I first masturbated, and how it made me feel. As I’m an avid reader, I discovered romance novels in my early teen years. My parents didn’t believe in sheltering me, so they let me read them. […]

Sensuality in my F/m relationship

I recently started following Brigit Delaney and I have decided to partake in an Erotic Journal Challenge. The first prompt was in regards to Sensuality (The 5 senses) and how they play a role in my relationship with my submissive. I’ve spent many years as a submissive and much of it was about the senses. […]