I think I have a pretty good network for this lifestyle. I have several submissive friends, a few dominant friends, and I had a wonderful mentor. What I've come to realize is that there isn't as many friendly dominants as there are submissives. On the left side of the slash we exercise control. We implement … Continue reading It’s lonely on top
Frenzy
I realized something last night. I created this blog in December as a means to let my creativity flow. I wanted to write, but I wasn't sure what I wanted to write. Which is how I came up with my blog name. I have so many ideas and fleeting thoughts passing through that I wanted … Continue reading Frenzy
“I’ll have what she’s having”…
This week's Erotic Journal Challenge is about discovering my own sexuality. When I became aware of my sexuality, when I first masturbated, and how it made me feel. As I'm an avid reader, I discovered romance novels in my early teen years. My parents didn't believe in sheltering me, so they let me read them. … Continue reading “I’ll have what she’s having”…
Disappointment…
Life in a D/s relationship isn't always sunshine and rainbows. Sometimes it is really hard, and I mean really hard. There are days that I'm just "not in the mood". I don't want to dominate. I don't want to be responsible for another person, as I am struggling to take care of myself. My moods … Continue reading Disappointment…
Bully
'It's 8am, this hell I'm in / Seems I've crossed a line again / For being nothing more than who I am / So break my bones and throw your stones / We all know that life ain't fair / But there's more of us, we're everywhere / We don't have to take this, back … Continue reading Bully
How we live D/s 24/7
I came across this question today and thought it could use some addressing. "How is it possible to live a 24/7 lifestyle? You can't submit 24 hours a day, it just isn't possible." So many people get tunnel visioned when learning about D/s. There is so much information and not one right answer but many. … Continue reading How we live D/s 24/7
Home
We have a new relationship, but we have been connected for years. He was my first love, my first real passionate kiss. He claimed my virginity. He was the love of my life, I just didn't know it then. What's so funny, ironic and maybe a little amazing is that we have always been close … Continue reading Home
