Irish-ish?

My SO is Scottish and Irish, even speaks Gaelic with his Nana. I must admit I just want to sit and listen. Every year for St. Patrick’s Day I wear a new panty that has some commercialized aspect to it just to tease him. He jokes with me and says I’m Irish by injection due […]

TMI Tuesday

This week’s TMI Tuesday… 1. What qualities of do you like and dislike about yourself? I’ve come to appreciate my capacity for emotional labor and attention to detail, but I really don’t like my bad habits of procrastinating and self-deprecation. 2. If you had the chance to rename yourself, would you? If yes, what would […]

TMI Tuesday 3/19/19

I’ve got questions, I sure hope you have the answers this TMI Tuesday. 1. What qualities of do you like and dislike about yourself? Like: I’m a caring person and I forgive easily. Dislike: I’m taken for granted and give in too easily. 2. If you had the chance to rename yourself, would you? If yes, […]

Ch-ch-changes

I had a piece I was working on for Masturbation Monday and it was going quite well, until I got a message and a call that changed my entire evening. My friend of 19 years chose to end his life. I’m heartbroken. I’ve done nothing but cry and be angry. Yes I’m angry because I […]

Story Time

Intimacy comes in all shades, and the most intimate acts have nothing to do with sex: Brushing hair, shaving, painting finger and toe nails, feeding, things that invoke a sense of vulnerability and connection. Not that sex isn’t intimate–it is very intimate–but I’ve found that I need something more and so I’ve made a point […]

Love of a Lifetime

Write a letter to your first love…or to your younger self at that time. What did you take away? What do you remember? Are your memories happy, sad…bittersweet? How did you grow? Was your first love even a person? Dear S, I wish I could remember all of the little things that made me decide […]